tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12155409446256523282024-03-08T14:26:50.020-08:00Building A HouseJenniferhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01738231927110349196noreply@blogger.comBlogger146125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1215540944625652328.post-66845912656324640422012-05-18T23:18:00.001-07:002012-05-18T23:18:45.083-07:00Psalm 89:29-34<div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-size: x-small;">If his children refuse to do what I tell them,</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: x-small;">if they refuse to walk in the way I show them,</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: x-small;">If they spit on the directions I give them</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: x-small;">But I'll never throw them out,</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: x-small;">never abandon or disown them."</span></div>
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What a comforting passage! I know this was written and it was talking about David, but I believe this promise of God to "never abandon or disown them" is also meant for us. If we have accepted Christ and truly believe that he died and rose again for the payment of our sins, then God's love is with us forever. Truly, His love for us is with us even before we accept Christ, but we have to accept his love - through Jesus Christ - in order for us to KNOW his love for us. </div>
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It is my prayer that all those in my life come to know Jesus Christ as their Lord and Savior. I can't force it on anyone, but I can definitely pray for them! And I do, every day. I want my friends and loved ones who don't know the freedom that comes from having a relationship with the Lord to find that freedom. I've talked about God with so many of my friends who aren't Christian and so many of them feel that God is an angry, judgmental God when he isn't! Yes, he gets angry AT sin, but he doesn't hate the sinner! He loves the sinner and his heart aches when we refuse to follow his direction. </div>
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If you're a parent you know what I'm talking about. You love your child no.matter.what. Do you always love their behavior? NO WAY! I can honestly say that when any one of my children blatantly and willfully rebels against us, I hate it. It breaks my heart! I literally ache for the decision that they are making at that moment. Why? Because I know when they willfully choose to rebel, they are choosing to remove themselves from God's grace. I'm still there, waiting for them to turn back to me, but oh, how my heart aches at their disobedience! </div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;">God is the same way. He WILL allow us to "face the music" of our actions, but will he discard us when we sin? No way! He will be there, waiting with open arms, for us to come back to him. And he will celebrate when we do. Oh, how I wish I could get certain people in my life to understand this! I think their lives would be so much richer and meaningful if they did! So, I continue to pray, trusting that seeds are planted by my words and actions and hoping that they allow the Holy Spirit to water their souls so they can blossom into beautiful children of God! </span></div>Jenniferhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01738231927110349196noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1215540944625652328.post-71634483123538639592012-05-08T23:05:00.000-07:002012-05-08T23:05:54.555-07:00Proverbs 9:6<div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;">
<span style="font-size: x-small;">" Leave your impoverished confusion and <i>live</i>!</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span class="ssens">Do you ever feel jealous of other people? If the person you're feeling jealous of isn't a Christian what do they <i>really</i> have that you need to feel jealous of? Sure, they may have lots of stuff. Their houses may be gorgeous. They may have the best cars, a big boat, or expensive jewelry. But, do they have what's <i>truly</i> important in life - salvation? If not, they deserve our pity, not our desire. </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span class="ssens">The verse I chose to use today tells us that we are to terminate association with a life that is deprived of something essential. A life that isn't sure of it's identity. When we don't have Christ in our hearts, our lives are missing something extremely essential - even if our homes are filled with beautiful things. We can't be sure of our own identities because we don't know the One who identifies us. And we're lacking the true strength that we need to even face our lives!</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span class="ssens" style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;">To live isn't just simply to be alive - to be breathing air. In this verse, Lady Wisdom is inviting us to have <i>eternal</i> life and to be thoroughly absorbed with Wisdom. With God. We can have all the beautiful things in the world, but if we don't have God's Wisdom, what good will it do us? We can't take it with us into the next world! It just becomes junk that our children have to deal with once we're gone. <span style="font-size: x-small;">(Not to mention how obsessed we can become with the stuff we have - kids want to play in the house? Oh - they better not or they might break the big-screen TV! And we HAVE a big screen TV, so I'm not just picking on people here. I'm speaking of myself as well. I have to remind myself that it's better for my kids to create memories of playing in the house than of constantly being told not to break anything?)</span></span></span></div>
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<span class="ssens" style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;">God wants us to be <i>absorbed</i> with Him. He wants us to make Him a part of our existent whole. He doesn't just want us on Sunday mornings. Or at our small groups during the week. He wants to be <i>absorbed into</i> us. Do you get that? Do you truly get that? <span style="font-size: x-small;">(I know I don't most of the time!) </span>God wants us to pursue a way of life where we are in union with Him. He wants us to have a life of meaning and significance. All the gold in the world won't give us that! And He doesn't just want us to have a life of significance - He wants us to have <i>special</i> significance! He designed us to have a particular purpose. That purpose does not entail racking up the dough or stuffing our garages full of things. His purpose for each one of us is to know Him and then to tell others about Him, hopefully leading them into their own life of significance in Christ. </span></div>
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<span class="ssens" style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;">Having a nice car, a beautiful house, or the best gadgets doesn't give us significance. Only Christ Jesus can do that. So, if you're a believer of Christ, then <i>know</i> that your life is significant! You have a greater purpose and the relationship you build with Him will give you such immense blessings in Heaven that all this earthly stuff won't even matter. </span></div>
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<span class="ssens" style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">Now to get myself to believe that when I see a flashy boat skimming across the water while mine sits broken in our garage...</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: x-small;">"I'm standing my ground, God, shouting for help,</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: x-small;">at my prayers every morning, on my knees each daybreak."</span></div>
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Wow.
This just convicted me in a mighty way! I keep whining about how things
are going in my family, but have I really prayed like *this*? No, I
haven't. Oh, I've prayed all right! But, not in a very consistent
fashion. I'll pray for my family one day, sometimes many times a day,
but then I'll miss a few days until I'm left wondering why things feel
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I <b>love</b> the picture this brings to my mind. Satan tries to make me give up. He attacks - and he attacks <u><i><b>hard</b></i></u>! But, I need to stand my ground against him, knowing that God wins in the end. And I can be <b>loud</b>
about asking for God's help. I don't have to go sit in my room and
whisper my prayer or even just think it in my mind. I can be bold. I can
shout. I can scream if I need to. But, I <i><b>need</b></i> to be praying! </div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;">So,
if you read this and feel led to do so - please hold me accountable. If
you hear me venting about things, or you see me being especially whiny,
ask me gently, "Have you prayed for your family lately?" Don't get on
my case if I haven't or try to shame me, just gently and lovingly remind
me to that before I say another word - or type another letter. Thank
you! :-)</span>Jenniferhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01738231927110349196noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1215540944625652328.post-82416314672009455102012-05-03T23:24:00.002-07:002012-05-03T23:26:15.849-07:00Psalm 86:15-17<div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;">
<span style="font-size: x-small;">"But you, O God, are both tender and kind,</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: x-small;">not easily angered, immense in love,</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: x-small;">and you never, never quit.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: x-small;">So look me in the eye and show kindness,</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: x-small;">give your servant the strength to go on,</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: x-small;">save your dear, dear child!</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: x-small;">Make a show of how much you love me</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: x-small;">so the bullies who hate me will stand there slack-jawed,</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: x-small;">As you, God, gently and powerfully</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: x-small;">Psalm 86:15-17 (The Message)</span></div>
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I haven't blogged in awhile. I've been reading God's word, but nothing has really jumped out at me. Tonight, as I was reading Psalms, this passage struck me. </div>
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Things here have been a bit crazy. Ok, so to be honest, I have felt pretty hopeless when it comes to my relationship with one of my children. I am weary. So, very weary. And the question has been coming to mind, "What was God thinking by calling us to this journey?!?!" </div>
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Then, I read this passage and I was reminded, again, that God will NEVER quit on us. He called us to this adoption journey and he won't quit on us. He <i><b>will</b></i> give me the strength I need to go on. He <i><b>will</b></i> save his dear child - and I'm not thinking of myself when I read that line. God will gently and powerfully put us <i><b>all</b></i> back on our feet! </div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;">And knowing this gives me the strength to keep trying despite my wondering why I even bother sometimes. I bother because I know I'm not in this alone. I know God is with me and I know that his immense love - which is indeed, tender and kind, will get us to the finish line. He doesn't just want us to survive the next few years together - he wants our years together to be filled with abundant love. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;">So, if he won't quit, neither will I. I'm just so thankful that on the days where I just can't do it anymore, he will place me back on my feet and give me strength. Thank you, Jesus!</span></div>Jenniferhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01738231927110349196noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1215540944625652328.post-40659060058375890642012-04-23T22:48:00.000-07:002012-04-23T22:49:36.463-07:00Psalm 82:11-13<div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;">
<span style="font-size: x-small;">"But my people didn't listen,</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: x-small;">"Oh, dear people, will you listen to me now?</span></div>
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This is one of the many things I love about God. He doesn't force us to obey him. He gave us "free-will". We can choose to follow his map for our lives or we can choose to go our own way. But, if we make the choice to go our own way, we darn well better not accuse him of wrong-doing if our way falls apart! Which it almost always will.</div>
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I went through a pretty dark period in my life where I literally told God to get his hands off of my life and leave me alone. He did. I can picture him now, taking a hands-off approach with such sadness in his eyes - knowing what pain was awaiting me. And boy! Did I go through some pain! My heart became bitter and dark. I wanted to spit when I heard praise music. I wanted to throw my Bible across the room whenever I saw it. I sat in church and went through the motions all the while accusing God of hypocrisy. </div>
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Do you see the amazing thing about this particular passage of Scripture? God let the reins go and allowed the Israelites to go their own way. And after they totally messed it all up, did he tell them he was staying away? Did he condemn them to a horrible life for their sin? No! He called them his "dear people" and asked them to follow him again. In fact, when I read this, I almost hear a sense of pleading in his tone. He was pleading with his people to come back to him! In fact, if you keep reading the rest of this Psalm, you'll see God telling the Israelites he'll take care of their enemies and give the Israelites a feast. </div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;">He'll do that with us as well. If you've had enough of trying to live life on your terms, why don't you come back to the One who can make everything right in your life? The weight can be removed from your shoulders and you can have peace. All it takes is confessing your desire to do life on your terms and asking God to take the reins again. He will. And he will celebrate with you upon your return! </span></div>Jenniferhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01738231927110349196noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1215540944625652328.post-84645406763652541112012-04-23T22:29:00.002-07:002012-04-23T22:35:22.806-07:002 Kings 1:3<div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;">
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This verse is being spoken to King Ahaziah after he fell off a balcony in his home. He sent his messengers to consult Baal-Zebub rather than have them consult God. For consulting a false God rather than the One true God, Ahaziah never again left his bed until the day he died. </div>
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What does that have to do with us today? I think it has a lot to do with us! How often do we seek other people's advice before going to the Lord for direction? If you're anything like me - you almost always go to others first. This has convicted me that from now on, I go to God first. </div>
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Does this mean I can never seek the counsel of anyone else? Absolutely not! God can use other people to direct us in his ways, just as he used prophets in Biblical days. I have some very wise people in my life and I know they would lead me down God's path. But, sometimes I rely on those people too much. Sometimes I seek their advice, never seeking God's advice. </div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;">So, for me, I'm going to start taking my questions and concerns to the Lord and if I need further direction, then I will seek out the wisdom of my friends. I need to start to rely on God more. He is truly the only One who will never let me down. </span></div>
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<br />Jenniferhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01738231927110349196noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1215540944625652328.post-21553572590543819612012-04-19T23:39:00.002-07:002012-04-19T23:44:44.687-07:00Proverbs 20:6, 9<div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">"Lots of people claim to be loyal and loving,</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">but where on earth can you find one?...</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">For who among us can be trusted</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">to be always diligent and honest?"</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">Proverbs 20:6, 9 (The Message)</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;">Today I was betrayed by someone I had hoped would never betray me. I'm still a bit shell-shocked by it all, but a dear friend reminded me that the only person who will never betray us or break our trust is God. I have a decision to make and it's not an easy one. Do I continue in a relationship with this person or do I walk away? I simply do not know. </div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;">I was so torn earlier today about this. My mind wouldn't stop racing with questions about what to do. What ifs were all over the place in my head. So, I drove up to the top of a mountain near where we live, found a secluded spot, rolled the windows down and spent some time with the Lord. </div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;">I was listening to some music when I looked down and saw a Bible on the floor of the car. So, I got it out and started reading in Psalms. Then, I remembered that I downloaded a Bible app for my phone, so I got that out and searched for verses about betrayal. I read a few of those. I decided I wanted to sing a bit, so I got out my "Until the End of the World" soundtrack CD and listened to one of my favorite songs, "Calling All Angels" by Jane Siberry a few times, singing along with it without a care in the world because I knew no one was around to hear me. (Ok, maybe my singing is why Bigfoot didn't get me as one of my boys always warns me about him when I go off into the woods alone...) I ended my time with purging all my racing thoughts and hurt to the Lord. </div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;">I felt the Lord telling me to just <b>STOP</b>, <b>be still</b> and <b>LISTEN</b>. So, I did. I sat there listening to the wind gently blow through the leaves until I felt the Lord telling me that it was OK. I didn't have to make any decisions right then. I could simply wait. So, that's what I'm doing. I don't know what the future holds for my relationship with this person. But, I do know that the Lord will never forsake me. My trust is in Him - <b>not</b> in human fallibility. And for tonight - that is enough. I'm simply going to basque in the peace the Lord has filled me with and rest. </span></div>Jenniferhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01738231927110349196noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1215540944625652328.post-19424830268565370032012-04-18T22:56:00.000-07:002012-04-18T22:56:00.964-07:00Proverbs 19:8<div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">"Grow a wise heart - you'll do yourself a favor;</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">keep a clear head - you'll find a good life."</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">Proverbs 19:8 (The Message)</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><br />
</div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;">I've blogged about this verse already, but I just needed to write my thoughts about this verse again. I sincerely hope it doesn't sound like I'm tooting my own horn, because what I'm about to say is a gift from God, pure and simple. Trust me - the changes in my are definitely not of my own doing! They are a result of me finally allowing God to have complete and total control over every aspect of my life (at least the majority of the time). </div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;">I've been reading the Bible pretty much daily now since January. In that time, I have read Proverbs 3 times and am on my 4th time now. Each time God speaks to me in different ways. I've been trying really hard to apply what I hear God say to me. In doing so, my heart is growing wiser. I have a very, very long ways to go yet, but God is working. My head is clearer - especially when I get frustrated with my husband or my children. I'm keeping my cool more and while I have moments/days where I just feel like I'm at the end of my rope (as I did today), I'm also enjoying a better life than I ever have before. </div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;">I have more self-control. I'm not so quick to lose my temper. And when I do get frustrated, I'm able to be quieter about it - more clear-headed. Am I perfect in this? By no means. But, I'm improving. And isn't that what we hope to do each day in our relationship with Christ? </div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;">I pray the Lord continues to work in my heart. I pray that he continues to work in the relationships I have with my family and friends. I pray that he continues to teach me his wisdom so that my life just gets better and better!</span></div>Jenniferhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01738231927110349196noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1215540944625652328.post-32813410746740351902012-04-18T22:39:00.000-07:002012-04-18T22:39:44.397-07:00Psalm 79:4-5a, 8b-9, 13<div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">"We're nothing but a joke to our neighbors,</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">graffiti scrawled on the city walls.</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">How long do we have to put up with this, God?</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">...Hurry up and help us; </span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">we're at the end of our rope.</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">You're famous for helping; </span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">God, give us a break...</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">...Then we, your people, the ones you love and care for,</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">will thank you over and over and over.</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">We'll tell everyone we meet</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">how wonderful you are, how praiseworthy you are!"</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">Psalm 79:405a, 8b-9, 13 (The Message)</span></div><br />
<div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;">This is how I feel these days: like a joke to one of our children. This child defies us, mocks us, and challenges us on absolutely everything we say or do. I know a lot of this is the age of this child. But, some of it is also because of the hurts in this child's heart from things in his/her past. Even so, my husband and I are tired. We feel as if we're at the end of our rope. And I'm sure our child feels the same. We <i><b>all</b></i> need a break. Including the other children in our home. </div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;">We need God's help. I have been begging for God's help, yet the turmoil persists. Does this mean God isn't working? Absolutely not! God <b><i>is</i></b> working, but he's working with fallible human beings who are all stubborn and strong-willed. Who <i><b>all</b></i> have pride issues that we're dealing with. Who <b><i>all</i></b> have a hard time admitting when they're wrong. But, he's also dealing with human beings who <b><i>all</i></b> want life in our home to be different. We all feel like giving up, but due to our stubbornness, I don't think any of us will. </div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;">The key is that we each be willing to allow God to work in our hearts. I can't speak for the rest of my family, but I can speak for myself when I say that I am trusting that God will help us through this. I may say, "I'm done." I may say, "I just want to drive away as fast as I can, as far as I can, and never come back.". But, I could never actually <i><b>do</b></i> that because I know God is going to bring healing to my family and I plan to be here to see that happen. </div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;">When it does happen, you can be certain that I will be thanking God over and over and over again and will be telling everyone I meet how wonderful God is!</span></div>Jenniferhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01738231927110349196noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1215540944625652328.post-68394165897761632672012-04-18T01:24:00.000-07:002012-04-18T01:24:23.863-07:00Proverbs 18:14<div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">"The spirit of a man <span class="text Prov-18-14" id="en-NKJV-16916">will sustain him in sickness,</span><br />
<span class="text Prov-18-14">But who can bear a broken spirit?"</span></span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;"><span class="text Prov-18-14">Proverbs 18:14 (NKJV)</span></span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;"><span class="text Prov-18-14">I have spent the last </span>5 years going through one medical issue after another. Miscarriage (after several weeks of bedrest), asthma issues, another miscarriage (after a couple months of bedrest), dislocated knee, torn cartilage in my wrist (which required surgery), depression and mono are just some of the things I've had to deal with. As difficult as it's been to deal with one thing after another, I have maintained a good spirit. I was able to function (except for some rough times after the miscarriages) and do what needed to be done. </div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;">But, give me a broken spirit and just getting out of bed is a battle for me. It feels like a heavy weight is on my chest and my body weighs 500 pounds. Keeping my eyes open is a battle; I find myself falling asleep two, sometimes three times a day. Fixing dinner for my family is a chore I can't even get my brain to wrap around, let alone grocery shopping for them. </div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;">I can't seem to beat this broken spirit. </div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;">But, I know who can. Almighty God. While I may struggle to get daily living things done, there is one thing I can do - and that is to read God's Word. In fact, it's the one thing I truly hunger for these days. Even if I don't feel like I have it in me to open it up, I wind up with it sitting open my desk, bent over reading as much of it as I can, soaking it up and waiting to hear God's voice in what I read. </div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;">It's as if I'm sitting in the lap of my Father, his arms wrapped around me and I can finally relax. My body is tense every time I check on it. But, when I'm reading the Word or meditating on his Name, my body relaxes completely. He is a balm to my soul. I cling to these moments throughout the day. When my muscles ache from being so incredibly tense, I open to Psalms and soak up the words of the psalmist. I close my eyes and just rest in the words that I've read. </div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;">I can't bear this broken spirit. But, God can. And he is carrying me through this time and is giving me the strength I need to get through each day. Praise be to God!</div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: xx-small;"><br />
</span></div><div class="publisher-info-bottom" style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"> <span style="font-size: xx-small;"><strong><a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/versions/New-King-James-Version-NKJV-Bible/">New King James Version</a> (NKJV)</strong></span><span style="font-size: xx-small;"> Copyright © 1982 by <a href="http://nelsonbibles.com/">Thomas Nelson, Inc.</a></span></div>Jenniferhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01738231927110349196noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1215540944625652328.post-82289097313784228372012-04-16T22:54:00.001-07:002012-04-16T22:55:22.030-07:00Psalm 77:11-12<div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">"Once again I'll go over what God has done,</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">lay out on the table the ancient wonders;</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">I'll ponder all the things you've accomplished,</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">and give a long, loving look at your acts."</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">Psalm 77:11-12 (The Message)</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;">If you read this entire Psalm, you'll see that Asaph is feeling like God has abandoned him. His friends tried to tell him that everything would be ok, but he didn't believe them. He can't sleep. His life feels like it's fallen apart. Sounds a bit like he's down in the dumps, maybe even in full-on depression, doesn't it? </div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;">These two verses are key to what we need to do when we feel depressed. We don't need to give in to the depression - we need to think about the things that God has already done in our own lives. If that doesn't work, meditate on the things God did in the Bible. The miraculous ways he worked and the small ways he worked. Make a list of the things he has done. Read it daily. Hourly, if need be. </div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;">For many who are feeling depressed this will be enough. For some, it may not be. You might have a chemical imbalance that requires some sort of medication. But, don't just medicate yourself and expect to get better. Get on some medication, if that's what you need, then think about all the ways God has worked in your life. Write them down in a notebook and read the Bible, specifically looking for ways God has worked in the lives of our ancestors. If you need someone to talk to, find a good, Christian counselor. I'll even go so far as to say, find a secular counselor if you need it. I've used both secular and Christian counselors and have gotten so much help from both. Just please, make sure a secular counselor will support you in your faith-walk with Christ. Some won't. And I believe we can't get true healing from depression without God.</div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;">Above all, ponder the things God has accomplished in this world so that you can see that he is, indeed, alive and working. And he is, indeed, a loving and compassionate God. If you are suffering from depression, please leave a comment so I can be in prayer for you. </span></div>Jenniferhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01738231927110349196noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1215540944625652328.post-46576433055161158062012-04-16T22:37:00.000-07:002012-04-16T22:37:47.095-07:001 Kings 19:11-12<div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">"A hurricane wind ripped through the mountains </span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">and shattered the rocks before God, </span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">but God wasn't to be found in the wind; </span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">after the wind an earthquake,</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">but God wasn't in the earthquake; </span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">and after the earthquake fire,</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">but God wasn't in the fire; </span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">and after the fire a gentle and quiet whisper."</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">1 Kings 19:11-12 (The Message)</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;">A couple different things struck me when I was reading these verses:</div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;">First, God doesn't always show himself in big, attention-getting ways. In fact, he rarely shows himself in these ways. When he speaks to us, it is usually in his still, small voice. It's easy to think God isn't working if we don't see huge, miraculous changes in our lives, but God doesn't always work that way. Sure, he <i><b>can</b><b></b></i>, but he wants us to be listening for his voice so I believe that's why he chooses to speak to us in whispers more often than not. </div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;">We are often looking for God to work wonders for us instead of sitting there listening for his quiet voice to guide us. This reminds me of the story of the man who is in a flood. He climbs to his rooftop to wait for God to rescue him. A man in a boat comes and tells him to climb in and he'd bring him to safety. The man on the roof waves him off and says, "I'm trusting God to rescue me!" Then, a helicopter flies up and they call to him to grab the ladder and they'd fly him to safety. The man declines, again saying, "I'm trusting God to rescue me!" Finally all the rescue efforts are over and the man drowns wondering why God hadn't rescued him. Is that crazy, or what?!</div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;">Pay attention for the quiet ways God works in your life. Too many times we don't see them until we look at our past and then see the gentle ways God was working. But, if we take the time to stop and listen for him, we'll see that he is here with us, guiding us in our everyday lives.</div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;">The other thing that struck me while reading these verses was that God works even in the midst of turmoil. Everything around us may be going crazy - we may feel like our lives are swirling around like a crazy hurricane or things are falling down around us as if we were in an earthquake - but if we take time to really listen for God's voice, we <i><b>will</b><b></b></i> hear it. In times of crisis it's so easy to think God isn't there because we can't hear him. But, if we stop and try to drown out the chaos, we might be able to hear his voice. No... we <i><b>will</b><b></b></i> be able to hear his voice. </div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;">Things in my life have been so insanely crazy lately. Today was one horrible day for me. It would have been so easy to not take the time to listen for God and just let my emotions run wild, but I took 30 minutes out of the chaos to go into my bedroom, shut the door, put on my headphones and listen to a meditation I have for healing from grief. During that time, I was able to see Jesus and feel his healing hand on my heart. I was able to allow God to stop the craziness and hear the Lord speak calm into my heart. Did he <i>literally</i> "speak" to me? No, but I felt his still, small voice telling me that everything is going to be ok with me and my family. </div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;">Take the time to read God's word and meditate on it - <i><b>especially</b></i> when you're going through a hard time. That's when we really need to lean on the Lord and he will be there for us if we go to him. Never stop listening for his gentle and quiet whisper. </span></div>Jenniferhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01738231927110349196noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1215540944625652328.post-67416154053117524792012-04-15T01:24:00.001-07:002012-04-15T01:31:10.420-07:00Luke 12:25<div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">"Has anyone by fussing before the mirror ever gotten </span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">taller by so much as an inch? </span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">If fussing can't even do that, why fuss at all?"</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">Luke 12:25 (The Message)</span></div><br />
<div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;">Oh my! This verse just popped out at me tonight! In context, this is talking about not being worried about having enough or getting more because God loves you so much that he'll provide for all our needs. </div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;"><br />
But this verse... Wow. </div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;">I've had some medical issues for a couple years now. Asthma, a difficult pregnancy which led to bedrest and my 8th miscarriage, and mono. All things that have kept me down, unable to do any sort of exercising. Add that to being in my mid - Ok. Fine... LATE 30s and I've put on some weight. And for a person who suffered from an eating disorder for most of her young adult life, this added weight can cause me some angst at times.<br />
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Thankfully, the Lord has pretty much healed me from the eating disorder, but Satan knows where I'm weak so he likes to attack my thoughts and get me being critical about my weight gain. It doesn't help that, according to Wii Fit, I am considered "overweight". (To which my amazingly wonderful, awesome children yell at the TV, "NO SHE'S NOT!" I love them, but I'm sad to say - the Wii Fit is correct. I AM a bit overweight right now.)</div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;">We don't have many large mirrors in our house. Not on purpose - it's just sort of worked out that way. But, there are times I get dressed in front of my dresser mirror and when I catch a glimpse of my body, I fret. I pinch. I examine. And I hate. *sigh* </div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;">But, the Word of the Lord is correct - like it always is. Is all my fretting going to take any inches off my belly? Not a chance. So why fret? I literally cannot do any exercising right now or I could have a serious mono set-back. On top of that I'm dealing with a respiratory illness which could trigger my asthma at any moment. So, for me to try to exercise right now would be detrimental to my health - and isn't my ultimate goal to be healthy - in ALL ways? </div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;">So, I focus on what I can do. When I crave sweets, I'm trying to reach for fruit instead of chocolate. I don't always succeed, but I'm eating more fruits now than I ever have before. I try to get outside every day to get some sun. I'm starting to go for short walks - when the weather behaves. So, that's taking care of my physical health. </div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;">I'm trying to get to bed earlier - which I'm not getting done tonight, but I'm going to afternoon church tomorrow, so I can enjoy the chance to sleep in, in the morning. I'm listening to a quiet meditation every night when I go to sleep that is designed to heal depression/grief/trauma so I'm learning how to breathe better and relax. I'm working on keeping myself calm when things are stressful with any of my kids. All of which is taking care of my emotional health.</div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;">And for my spiritual health I'm reading my Bible every day. I'm listening for how God speaks to me. And I'm spending more time in prayer. I'm working on getting to church more often and now that we've found a church home that I love, that's easier for me to do. So, my spiritual health is really my best thing right now. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;">Considering that's the most important thing, who cares if my waist is several inches more than it used to be? I can work on that WHEN I am physically healthy enough to do it. But, my heart is with the Lord so I have all that I need. </span></div>Jenniferhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01738231927110349196noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1215540944625652328.post-28289083011317263942012-04-15T01:01:00.000-07:002012-04-15T01:01:19.335-07:00Proverbs 15:23<div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">"Congenial conversation - what a pleasure!</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">The right word at the right time - beautiful!"</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">Proverbs 15:23 (The Message)</span></div><br />
<div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;">Congenial conversation. I've had a lot of that lately having our friends staying with us! It's been such a gift for me to have another adult woman in my home! I enjoy the conversations we have with each other because we feel the same about so many things. However, there are a couple things we don't feel the same about and before realizing we don't feel the same about them, I have opened my mouth and inserted my foot. Thankfully, my friend understands that we're not going to enjoy the same things or agree with the same thing. I just wish I'd think before I speak because I realize now that the comments I have made have been rather judgmental towards certain people. (For instance, my view on motorcycles.) </div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;">I used to be a very judgmental person and have changed quite a bit. In fact, I thought I had gotten rid of all judgmental attitudes (except towards myself *sigh*) before realizing that I've made at least two very judgmental comments in the presence of my dear friend. And I could feel the tension when I did it. I did tell her I hoped my words didn't offend her and she said no, but this Proverb stuck out at me tonight. I guess I need to work on that judgmental attitude a bit more after all. </div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;">Thank you, Lord, for revealing my sin to me before I cause anyone serious hurt in my home and in my life today. Help me to stop before I speak if my words have the risk to sound judgmental or may hurt someone else. May my words be pleasurable and not hurtful. </span></div>Jenniferhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01738231927110349196noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1215540944625652328.post-11499036084678274112012-04-11T20:56:00.000-07:002012-04-11T20:56:09.233-07:00Psalm 73:21-26<div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">"Then I realized that my heart was bitter,</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">and I was all torn up inside.</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">I was so foolish and ignorant - </span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">I must have seemed like a senseless animal to you.</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">Yet I still belong to you;</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">you hold my right hand.</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">You guide me with your counsel,</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">leading me to a glorious destiny.</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">Whom have I in heaven but you?</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">I desire you more than anything on earth.</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">My health may fail, and my spirit may grow weak,</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">but God remains the strength of my heart;</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">he is mine forever."</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">Psalm 73:21-26 (NLT)</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;">Oh boy - do I know the pang of bitterness! The psalmist gets it right when he says he was <i>"all torn up inside"</i>. That's exactly how it feels. You know what you're feeling is wrong, but the more you try to fight it, the worse the bitterness becomes. It gets so strong you can taste it. And the thoughts it leaves you thinking; the feelings it leaves you feeling... well... it's like you're being taken over by the bitterness monster of stench. And you can't just wash it off of yourself. </div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;">Yet, despite how bitter my heart was becoming, God <b><i>still </i></b>claimed me for his own. He still guided me, <span style="font-size: x-small;">when I would let him</span>, to what I'm trusting will be a glorious destiny. God never gave up on me during that time of bitterness. People did. People I never thought would leave my side left me standing with my mouth gaping open in shock. But, the Lord my God, never, ever left me. Oh - I left him for a time, but he was <b><i>always</i></b> there, waiting ever-so patiently for me to return to him. </div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;">People may fail me. My own mind and body may fail me. But, my God "remains the strength of my heart." He is mine forever. And </span><i style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><b>no one</b></i><span style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"> can take him away from me. My Lord, My God - I </span><b style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><i>do</i></b><span style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"> desire you more than anything on earth!</span></div>Jenniferhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01738231927110349196noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1215540944625652328.post-64616367463037760762012-04-11T20:34:00.000-07:002012-04-11T20:34:30.529-07:001 Kings 8:28, 29b<div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">"Pay attention to my prayers, </span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">both intercessory and personal, O God, my God.</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">Listen to my prayers, energetic and devout,</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">that I'm setting before you right now...</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">Listen from your home in heaven</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">and when you hear, forgive."</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">1 Kings 8:28, 29b (The Message)</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;">Oh, how my heart and soul pray for God's action! I know I am a sinner who is in need of a Savior! I know that no matter how much I try not to, I will always sin - it's just human nature. But, I praise God that he has made a way for me to be righteous in his eyes. </div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;">My prayers are for his forgiveness of my sins, particularly my sin of wanting to give up on certain things or people in my life. Sometimes I just get so worn out and I just need a break. And lately, a physical break just hasn't been enough to bring my heart and soul peace. I need a spiritual break. And I find that when I get into the Word. Suddenly, everything around me just ceases to <b><i>be</i></b> and all is quiet. I'm focused on what I'm reading and it's as if the Lord is speaking directly to me through his words. And I get the respite my soul is longing for. </div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;">The Lord knows what my heat's desire is. He knows what my soul longs most for and I know that he is working. I know that he can bring healing to broken relationships and that he <b>can</b> bring restoration. He pays attention to what I pray for - no matter how many times I pray it. He listens to my cries for healing and he gives me glimpses of his work to show me that he is, indeed, working. And those glimpses, no matter how tiny they are, keep me hoping for a brighter future and trusting that complete heart healing will happen. I just need to keep putting it all into God's hands and stop trying to make healing happen. </span></div>Jenniferhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01738231927110349196noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1215540944625652328.post-49410491748246798742012-04-10T22:50:00.001-07:002012-04-10T22:52:38.947-07:00Proverbs 11:25<div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">"The one who blesses others is abundantly blessed;</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">those who help others are helped."</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">Proverbs 11:25 (The Message)</span></div><br />
<div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;">I've already written thoughts on this verse so I wasn't sure I should write more, but as I started to delete what I wanted to write, I felt a strong pull to continue writing, so here goes:</div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;">My husband and I were blessed to make some good money a few years ago. Because of that, we were able to buy some things that we now wouldn't have been able to buy. A boat (which doesn't run right now lol) and a camper are two of those things we were able to buy. They were paid for with cash, so we didn't go in debt for them. And what a blessing they have been! (Ok, so the boat isn't such a blessing right now since it doesn't run, but the little time that it did, it blessed our family a lot!)</div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;">We've been able to go camping a lot - sometimes in spots where we have to pay, but most of the time we go where it's free. Free fun with the family - what more could a parent ask for?! We have had so much fun getting that camper in and out of spots that are... well... a tad frightening trying to get in and out of! But, the thing that blesses me the most about having the camper is being able to open our home to friends who need a temporary home for a time. In doing so, we have not just been a blessing, but we are <b>getting</b> abundantly blessed by getting to know our friends in more intimate ways. We now have 3 families who are not just our friends, but our family, due to us opening our home to them. Talk about being blessed!</div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;">We have family members we are related to - some of whom we are close to and some of whom we are quite distant to. But, now? We have 20.5 new family members on top of the family we already had! That's 3 new brothers, 3 new sisters, 7 new nieces and 7 new nephews with one new niece or nephew on the way (thus the .5).</div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;">Tell me... who's more blessed? The friends we were able to help out? Or the friends who gained 20.5 family members in the process? </div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;">Helping others is a wonderful thing! Thank you Lord for blessing us so that we can bless others and get even more blessed in the process!</div>Jenniferhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01738231927110349196noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1215540944625652328.post-3521077813310978352012-04-09T20:40:00.000-07:002012-04-09T20:40:30.737-07:001 Kings 3:9<div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">"Give me a God-listening heart so I can lead your people well,</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">discerning the difference between good and evil.</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">For who on their own is capable of leading your glorious people?"<br />
1 Kings 3:9</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;">God asked King Solomon to name <i>anything</i> he wanted. Solomon could have asked for gold or silver. He could have asked for the Israelites to obey his commands as king. But, he didn't. He asked for wisdom. This verse may be King Solomon's request to God, but it should also be our requests to God - <i>especially </i>if we're parents. </div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;">Our children are also God's people and as parents, we should want to lead our children well. We need to be able to discern between good and evil and in order to do that well, we need to have God-listening hearts. In other words: wisdom. But, how many of us parents truly pray for the Lord to give us wisdom? </div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;">I know my heart's prayer is often for my children to obey me better. To listen to me. To do what I say so that <i>my</i> life is easier. In reality, I need to be praying for God's wisdom to know how to handle when my children <i><b>aren't</b></i> obeying according to God's will and also to see when they <b><i>DO</i></b> God's will so I can show them that I see the good they do, as well. </div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;">I, on my own, am not capable of leading God's children; MY children. <b><i>My glorious children</i></b>. I <i>must</i> have God's wisdom in order to do a good job. </span></div>Jenniferhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01738231927110349196noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1215540944625652328.post-81590558613917492622012-04-06T23:38:00.000-07:002012-04-06T23:38:01.207-07:00Psalm 71:12-14<div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">"God, don't just watch from the sidelines.</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">Come on! Run to my side!</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">My accusers - make them lose face.</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">Those out to get me - make them look</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">Like idiots, while I stretch out, reaching for you,</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">and daily add praise to praise."</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">Psalm 71:12-14 (The Message)</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;">I'm nowhere near a perfect mom. And my husband is nowhere near a perfect dad. But, we do our best. We meet our kids' needs and give them much of what they want. We love them. We provide for them. We have fun with them. And, we try not to embarrass our kids by disciplining them in front of each other and especially not in front of friends or strangers. But, you know what? When one of my kids decides to tell us, day in and day out, that they hate us - and don't discriminate based on who may or may not be around - well... it gets tiring. And eventually, these parents are going to snap. </div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;">Thankfully, the way I snap today doesn't look like it did in the past. Today, the "snapping" looked more like confronting the child in front of our guests and then, due to the child's continued display of disrespect, sending the child to bed. I'm sorry. I'm not a perfect mom, but a mom can only take so much hearing of the words, "I hate you" before she just needs to confront it. </div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;">I'm worn out. I'm tired. And I pray that I can hold it together and keep my arms reaching for God, continuing to praise him, despite the hatred that is being spewed at me every.single.day from one of my children. May this child lose face from acting like this and may this child not drag me down with them. May I keep my focus on Christ and what He has done for me - and yes... even for this child who spews such venom. May I be the best parent I can be in each moment, teaching <i><b>all</b></i> my children to love God in the process.</span></div>Jenniferhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01738231927110349196noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1215540944625652328.post-90266681953348029682012-04-05T22:38:00.000-07:002012-04-05T22:38:36.459-07:00Luke 11:10-13<div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">"Don't bargain with God. Be direct.</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">Ask for what you need.</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">This is not a cat-and-mouse, hide-and-seek game we're in.</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">If your little boy asks for a serving of fish, </span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">do you scare him with a live snake on his plate?</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">If your little girl asks for an egg, </span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">do you trick her with a spider?</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">As bad as you are, you wouldn't think of such a thing - </span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">you're at least decent to your own children.</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">And don't you think the Father who conceived you in love</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">will give the Holy Spirit when you ask him?"<br />
Luke 11:10-13 (The Message)</span></div><br />
<div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;">I have struggled with this passage in the past. It seemed so much like whatever I asked for, God did the opposite. Especially when it came to being pregnant. I still don't have the answers as to why he answered my prayer to have a healthy baby with the death of so many of my babies, but I do know that when I asked for the Holy Spirit's help, He was there. He carried me through the pain and bitterness that came after the loss of my babies and he has brought me to a new understanding of his love for me. </div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;">Is it fair that I lost so many babies when women who do drugs during their pregnancies or go on to abuse their children got to keep their babies? No. But, do I know God's plan for those babies who were born into this world? No. Who am I to question what he does? God sees everything from a totally different perspective than I do and while I would love to sit down with him and demand to know the answers, I also know that when I get to heaven I will be with my Father and none of this will even matter anymore. I will be with God and that's all that I'll need. </span></div>Jenniferhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01738231927110349196noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1215540944625652328.post-52019622981352759372012-04-03T23:07:00.000-07:002012-04-03T23:07:18.691-07:00Proverbs 4:5-7<div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">"Get wisdom; develop good judgement.</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">Don't forget my words or turn away from them.</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">Don't turn your back on wisdom, for she will protect you.</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">Love her, and she will guard you.</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">Getting wisdom is the wisest thing you can do!</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">And whatever else you do, develop good judgment."</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">Proverbs 4:5-7 (NLT)</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;">How do we "get wisdom". We aren't just born with it, we have to learn it. Some of the ways we do this are learning from our parents, our teachers, our pastors, and books. One specific book has all the wisdom we'll ever need. This book is The Holy Bible. </div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;">I have learned so much by reading my Bible and I continue to learn new things each time I read through it. My heart latches on to the words it needs to hear in order for me to grow spiritually and emotionally. I love this about reading God's Word! It never ceases to amaze me how God speaks to me through His Word. </div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;">I've also learned some amazing wisdom from the people around me. My parents, of course. I also had some great spiritual leaders in my life - a couple dear teachers (an elementary teacher named Mrs. Rose as well as a high school French teacher named Mme. Hull), several different pastors in my youth and today, many godly friends as well as pastors/elders in our community. I've learned so much from all these special people in my life and I feel so blessed to have had them in my life, but I'm also blessed that God allowed me to be open to being teachable. </div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;">Do you have wise people in your life who can help you grow in Wisdom? If not, I encourage you to start seeking people out from whom you can learn. Wisdom is a beautiful thing. And good judgement can save your life. </span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;">If you're interested in knowing what's in the Bible, but you don't have one, please let me know in the comments section. I can direct you to where you can get one for free. </span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
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</div>Jenniferhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01738231927110349196noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1215540944625652328.post-83694891779348180712012-04-03T22:50:00.000-07:002012-04-03T22:50:34.278-07:00Psalm 68:19<div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">"Praise the Lord; praise God our savior!</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">For each day he carries us in his arms."</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">Psalm 68:19 (NLT)</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;">Today was a rough day. Every single member of my family is sick. Some have sinus infections. Some of stomach bugs. And some have both. I was one with a stomach bug. Emotions in my home have been up and down, and then with everyone getting sick, I wasn't sure how I was going to get through this day. But, the Lord carried me through it. </div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;">We have a family of eight staying with us right now. I <u><i><b>love</b></i></u> having them here, but it's tough to have guests when you're not feeling well; I was worried about how I could be a pleasant hostess when I was feeling so sick. Then it turned out that they were all gone for the day. I had spaced out that they were going to the city for a medical appointment. So, I was able to get some much needed rest this morning without worrying about being a good hostess. :-) By the time I woke up from my morning nap, I was feeling ten times better, so I was able to do some cleaning up in the kitchen and even make spaghetti - from scratch. </div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;">The Lord truly does carry us along day after day!</span></div>Jenniferhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01738231927110349196noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1215540944625652328.post-52293921517591404252012-04-02T21:48:00.000-07:002012-04-02T21:48:06.808-07:00Proverbs 3:5-6<div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">"Trust God from the bottom of your heart;</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">don't try to figure out everything on your own.</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">Listen for God's voice in everything you do, everywhere you go;</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">he's the one who will keep you on track."</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">Proverbs 3:5-6 (The Message)</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;">Right now in my life things seem pretty topsy-turvy. I don't see much hope for the future in regards to one of the relationships in my life. I don't know why we have to go through this difficult time, but what I do know is that if I <i>stop</i> trying to figure out why this is all happening and <i>start listening</i> for God's voice, I will stay on the track that God has called me to. </div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;">While I don't know why exactly God called us to adoption, I don't believe God's intention was for our world to feel like it's falling apart. So, I fix my eyes on Jesus, trusting that he will do his good work in my family. </span></div>Jenniferhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01738231927110349196noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1215540944625652328.post-71113739237055885152012-04-02T21:37:00.000-07:002012-04-02T21:37:59.189-07:00Psalm 66:8-12<div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">"Bless our God, O peoples!</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">Give him a thunderous welcome!</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">Didn't he set us on the road to life?</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">Didn't he keep us out of the ditch?</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">He trained us first,</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">passed us like silver through refining fires,</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">Brought us into hardscrabble country,</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">pushed us to our very limit,</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">Road-tested us inside and out,</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">took us to hell and back;</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">Finally he brought us</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">to this well-watered place."</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">Psalm 66:8-12 (The Message)</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;">Anyone who knows anything about my life knows that I have been through a refining fire. I've often been heard repeating myself, "I think God put me in the fire and then walked away forgetting about me, like I forget about a pot of boiling water on the stove." While I know this isn't the way God works, this sure felt true to me at times!</div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;">Some days I feel like I don't have it in me to get through another issue. But, then God gives me the strength to do what needs to be done. Believe me when I say I've been through hell and back. But, also believe me when I say that God has, indeed, brought me to a well-watered place. Things are still incredibly rough in my life, but the more I lean on Christ, the more at peace I become. It's as if I am sitting on a rock in the middle of a raging river, but all around me is peaceful water. I breathe in God's peace and I know it will all be ok. That God is working and his will is for my life to be whole - with him as the head, it IS whole. I give him thunderous praise! </span></div>Jenniferhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01738231927110349196noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1215540944625652328.post-57229912473196466882012-03-29T23:23:00.000-07:002012-03-29T23:23:04.924-07:00Psalm 65:5<div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">"You faithfully answer our prayers with awesome deeds,</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">O God our savior. </span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">You are the hope of everyone on earth,</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">even those who sail on distant seas."</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">Psalm 65:5 (NLT)</span></div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;">Psalm 65 paints a beautiful picture of how God takes care of his earth. It goes into quite a bit of detail of the things he does to make the things of earth grow and blossom. If God takes the time to care for his earth, how much more does he want to take the time to care for us, his children? </div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;">My prayer right now is for my family to be whole again. This is a righteous prayer. A prayer that God can, and will, answer - if the people in my family want it as well. We are given free will and if one member (or two, or three...) decides to give up on the family, there's not a whole lot I can do about it. But, what I can do is pray. Because God can change hearts. </div><div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;">God is my hope for my family. He will work, if we let him. Will you please pray with me that we will all allow God to work to bring wholeness and healing to my family? </span></div>Jenniferhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01738231927110349196noreply@blogger.com0